I saw this image a while ago and it reminded me of a conversation I had recently with a friend… I playfully told him I was jealous of him and his achievements (truth is, I was)

He had a job as busy as mine but he seemed to have time for so many other things: writing, photography, modelling, committed in church… I could go on…

I woke up this morning thinking about how there was so much I wanted to do and never enough time. .. then I saw this image again and it was like it was a voice in my head saying over and over again. You can do it for you want it badly enough

The message in the image is ” You can do anything you set your mind to when you have the vision and determination…

Guess the reason it seems we can never have what we desire is because we actually never believe we can get it (vision) and so we never try hard enough for it (determination) . so what happens is that the world is full of a bunch of people who are dreaming away…

This is my message to you all… go ahead and dream! but don’t stop there – wake up! and begin to look for, and do things to make your dream become reality.

Stand up and take over your world!

To my Friends…(Final)

Hmmm… finally we have come to the end of this interesting episode of letters to my friends. I write not as instructed by heaven by as I think fit…and hope that you are blessed and encouraged by these words… (sounds like brother Paul init?)

picture8.jpgTo My Friends Who Are……… AFRAID TO CONFESS

Love hurts when you break up with someone.

It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.

But love hurts the most:

When the person you love has no idea how you feel about him/her  ( Is there a witness in the house?)


To My Friends Who Are……… STILL HOLDING ON

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be, and that you had wasted years on someone who wasn’t worth it.

If that person isn’t worth it now, he/she’s not going to be worth it in a year or 10 from now. (selah)



In case you have been feeling non of the categories relate to you. This is for you with all my love…J



My wish for you is a man/woman whose love is:

Honest, strong, mature, never-changing, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.

To my Friends…(3)

Can you imagine? I promised “to my engaged friends” and none of you noticed it was missing…I only just realised myself. well, lucky you. you will get three versions today…


To My Friends Who Are……… ENGAGED 


The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together…but how good you are for each other!

 picture6.jpgTo My Friends Who Are …….. NAIVE


How to be in love:

Be consistent but not too persistent,

Share and never be unfair,

Understand and try not to demand,

And get hurt but never keep the pain.


To My Friends Who Are……… POSSESSIVE


It breaks your heart to see the one you love 

Happy with someone else

But it’s more painful to know that the one you love                                          

Is unhappy with you.


To my Friends…(2)

It’s been nice to know people are interested in this series… if you are a first timer here, I suggest you check out part 1… 


To My Friends Who Are……….. MARRIED


Love is not about “it’s your fault“, but “I’m sorry.”
Not “where are you“, but “I’m right here for you
Not “how could you“, but “I understand
Not “I wish you were“, but “I’m thankful you are

 picture4.jpgTo My Friends Who Are……….. HEARTBROKEN  

Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go

The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks…But how to learn from them.


I am Sooo tempted to continue and give you one more…

…. No! watch out for season 3 (* wink*)



To my Friends…


I stumbled on this a while ago and I really enjoyed it. it is quite long so I am going to break it over next few days (or weeks). hope you enjoy and learn a thing or two from it. Take good care and be sure to drop a line…

picture2.jpgTO MY FRIENDS… who are single

Love is like a butterfly.

The more you chase it, the more it eludes you.
But if you just let it fly, It will come to you when you least expect it. 

Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.

So take your time and choose the best. (Word!!!)
picture1.jpgFRIENDS… who are not so single

Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s “perfect person” … It’s about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be. 

I will be back with a word For my friends who are …Engaged